Heart crushing disaster challenge!! (importnat questions have stars by them)LADIES PLZZ?

my bf broke up with me..and im really heart broken...were still cool or wt ever but he acts like a big axxhole to me now...six months ago when we first met ( beetween tht time i made some honest mistakes ex..over reacting about "some" stuff..and i sumwht got influced by othrs on how our relation ship shuld run.) *does tht have any thing to do with idt?* . andd...ik ppl get tired of each other but he lead me on **sexually and i almost felt like he played with my mind mentally for 6 months..**..do guys do that and iff soo why??**.( by the way we broke up 3-4 weeks ago) n what not..juss to let it be over beacuse of the summer and hes busy with all these sports n crapp.....but to get to the main point...im a bigg mess ive cried numerous of times...and i still cry noww juss not as bad....***is that a sign that im slowly getting over him***?(**if not what are some ways that could easly help me get over him moree***.------[ extra details]--he mentioed to me that he prolly dosnt wanna date juss me his whole skool lifee but..why would he lead me on??..ik there are things about a girl that a guy will nver tell his gf..( witch is stupid beacause gfs hate tht shixx witha passion).. he talkd about us juss bein mclovin buddies..only beacuse i said "i loved him enouff to take his virginity..n it was about "us", me n him..not so much the realtionship if its not workin oudt at the time" ( ya kno how we both feel).. so he was like..we "could be mabey he dosnet kno."..BUTT!! OVER ALL TO WRAP THIS UP.... what would you do if you were in this situation ladies plzz.... and **what do you think of him in the situation and me..**